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<p><strong>This is shame-free, affirmative sex education for college-age women, and anyone just discovering what they want</strong></p>
<b>“<i>Do As I Say, Not Who I Did</i> is not subtle, delicate, or laced in metaphor. . . . It’s compelling, funny, and unflinchingly educational while delivering a stream of unconditional compassion for the reader.”—<i>Daily Campus</i></b>
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<br> It’s hard to overstate how much we put pressure on early sexual encounters—and how little real advice is out there.
<i>How do I deal when I keep running into my one-night stand? How can I tell if I’m too drunk to have sex? How do I say stop when I’m not really into it? Why do I keep getting all these UTIs?</i>
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<br> And most of all:
<i>Why is so much of sex ed focused on what could go wrong instead of what actually feels good?</i> In this unflinchingly honest guide to hookups and relationships in the twenty-first century, Ali Drucker answers these questions and more—with “been there, done that” confessional advice, plus input from experts on sexuality and from students in college today.
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<br> If you missed out on shame-free, affirmative sex education . . . if you’re nervous about having sex . . . if you’re just discovering what you want (and how to ask for it)—this book is for you.